What do you do when
your imaginary friends won’t talk to you?
Sometimes writer’s
block is really just a form of exhaustion. This is a hard business, and it can
seem to take forever to get anywhere.
There’s so much to learn, so many decisions to make, so much to keep track of,
and of course far too much to do. And unfortunately, success doesn’t lighten
the load. Whether you are not-yet-published, a debut novelist with 1001 “must
do” publicity tasks, a midlist writer juggling work-for-hire jobs with your own
fiction, or an award winner suddenly in so much demand that you don’t have time
to write, the writing life can get overwhelming.
Sometimes we need to
take a break from all the pressure and reconnect with the reasons we fell in
love with writing in the first place. You may find it hard to give yourself
permission to take a vacation, but research has shown that people get less effective if they work too hard for too
long. In the 19th century, when companies gave in to union demands for a
40-hour workweek, productivity climbed despite the shorter hours. And office
workers may have even fewer “good” hours than manual laborers, on average about
six per day.
In the short term,
working long hours can help you achieve goals, but an extra 50% of work time
may only produce 25% more work. Fatigue sets in and productivity drops. Even
more important, after eight 60-hour weeks, productivity has dropped so low that
most groups would be better off if they’d stuck with a 40-hour workweek the
whole time.
Fortunately, for
many people writing feels like a break from their full-time job, so it’s more
like a hobby than extra work. And in some cases, that loopy state of exhaustion
may free up creativity. This can be helpful for rough drafts or brainstorming
sessions. I’ve gotten some of my most creative ideas during 2 AM bouts of
insomnia. Still, if you are feeling burned out, consider whether it’s time to
take a break, rework your schedule, or try something new.
Fellow Mayhemer Joy
McCullough-Carranza says, “I’m not a writer who has to make herself write – I
am almost constantly working – so I am very comfortable taking a couple weeks
off if things have reached a breaking point. Sometimes a critique partner gently
suggests this might be useful and it almost always is. In those breaks, I read
more than usual, watch more TV/movies, etc., and I’m usually itching to get
back at it before too long.”
Here are some more
specific tips:
– Get enough sleep. I know, it’s often harder than it sounds,
but studies have shown that losing an hour of sleep each night for a week
causes cognitive degradation equivalent to a .10 blood-alcohol level. People in
that state typically don’t recognize that they are impaired, so people who can survive on six hours sleep a night may
not thrive on it.
“Get enough sleep”
may go against advice you’ll find elsewhere, such as get up early or stay up
late to write. Individuals must find their own balance. If you can’t eliminate
some other task from your life to free up time, you may need to snatch a few
minutes here and there to write, or block out time on weekends and vacations.
(See part 4, “How
Do You Find Time to Write?”)
– Write something just for fun with no worries about marketability. Play!
This can help you remember why you wanted to be a writer in the first place.
Even better, it takes off the pressure, which may help counteract perfectionist
tendencies or fear of failure.
– Take yourself on regular “artist dates” – trips to museums, zoo, or art galleries,
walks in the park, thrift store shopping. Plan a goofy craft party with friends
or your family. Read great books just for enjoyment. In Bird by Bird, Anne Lamott calls this filling the well. If you don’t
take enough in, you won’t have anything to give out through your writing.
– Take a writing class that may get you fired up again. For the
time being, don’t worry about what you “should” learn next (say, how to find an
agent.) Instead, try something that sounds like fun (poetry, memoir, paranormal
fiction?), even if you’re sure you’ll never try to publish in that area. Many
classes are offered online. You can also check your local community college or
community center, combining learning with socialization. Even reading books or
magazines on writing could help you feel inspired.
– Take a class in something completely
different, just to stretch
your mind. Art classes are good for exploring creativity, while a course in
history or politics may give you topic ideas. Studying a foreign language or
music might tap into different parts of the brain.
An action-fantasy inspired by the Arabian Nights - Publication was squeezed in between other projects. |
– Brainstorm new ideas. After a strenuous year where I wrote a
novel, several nonfiction books, and multiple articles, plus edited an older
manuscript and took two books through the self-publishing process, I found
myself not wanting to start a new fiction project. I stopped worrying about the
book I was “supposed” to do next and reread some of my favorite innovative
novels by other authors. I came up with a completely new idea – yet one that
drew on many of my interests – and I started to feel hopeful about fiction
again.
– Keep perspective. I remind students who want to be
professional writers that they are trying to switch careers, which normally
would mean going back to college for four or more years, and then maybe doing
an internship or starting at the bottom and working their way up. So why do
people think their first manuscript should be a bestseller? It's not like
writing is easy!
It would be nice if
we didn’t have to think about projects as study and homework. However, I know
lots of my “dead files” are not worthy of publication. They were part of
learning the craft and finding my voice. Realistically, it can take years to
find success. Just because you’re not there yet doesn’t mean you can’t get
there.
Most importantly,
remember that you deserve a break sometimes, and your writing may be better for
it.
How do you balance writing with the rest of
your life? Have you taken a vacation from writing? Did it help or hurt your
progress in the long run?
Chris Eboch’s novels for ages nine and up include The Genie’s Gift, a middle eastern fantasy, The Eyes of Pharaoh, a mystery in ancient Egypt; The Well of Sacrifice, a Mayan adventure; and the Haunted series,
which starts with The
Ghost on the Stairs. Her book Advanced
Plotting helps writers
fine-tune their plots. Learn more at www.chriseboch.com or her
Amazon page, or check out
her writing tips at her Write Like a Pro! blog.
This can be tricky, because a lot of the time, writer's block emerges from not writing *enough*. That is, you sit down to write and it doesn't come easily, and you don't sit down to write often enough to get past that, so writer's block becomes this thing you can't overcome. And of course, in that case, it's not going to be a matter of taking a break. It's going to be just the opposite.
ReplyDeleteSo the thing to do, I suppose, is to evaluate yourself. If you're putting in the time, take a break. If you're not putting in the time, get back to work. If you're stuck on a scene, try writing a different scene. If you're stuck on a story, try writing a different story. (I became a lot more productive when I started doing this with my songwriting.) If you usually write alone, write with friends. If you usually write with friends, write alone.
Writing is one of those strange things for which there is no magic bullet. There is no right way. And that means most anything can work. You just need to be open to approaching things differently.
Harrison Demchick
Developmental Editor, Ambitious Enterprises
I love what both you and Harrison say, Chris. My goal this year--which came about because I realized I was giving myself an ulcer worrying about when or whether my agent would sell my debut novel--was to HAVE FUN. I have written a goofy chapter book, and am plunging into a new project. The middle grade novel I was writing (which was not fun, because I got stumped on the plot) has taken a complete back seat.
ReplyDeleteThe proof of my refocusing: my critique group unanimously agreed "We can tell you are enjoying yourself when you're writing this one."
Great point, Harrison. My post here mainly addresses burnout, but the first step would be to determine if that's the problem or if it's something else. There are certainly other reasons for finding it difficult to write. I discussed difficulties with finding the time to write (or being disciplined enough to write regularly) in my post last month: http://project-middle-grade-mayhem.blogspot.com/2014/04/chris-eboch-on-finding-time-to-write.html
ReplyDeleteI think it's really easy to spin wheels out of a fear of not producing rather than ease back when its necessary. Great, brave advice here, Chris.
ReplyDeleteGreat post, Chris -- especially as I transition to full time writer next year. I tried to roll straight from an exhausting series writing schedule straight into a brand new idea (and I haven't retired yet!) and I think I came up against that "I need a vacation from writing" thing. I guess I thought, if I'm quitting teaching to write, I better darn well right!
ReplyDeleteIn fact, delaying writing can sometimes be beneficial to me when working on a first draft. Let the pressure build up -- and then pour it out on the page (usually late at night when the inhibitions are down).
Great advice, Chris. I'm a firm believer in getting enough sleep.
ReplyDeleteI've taken numerous breaks from writing, but I feel more productive when I'm actually writing two to three hours a day. And when I get stuck on my current project, I switch to another one. If the voice is different enough, I can switch gears without too much adjusting.
I have to take breaks when I start getting headaches from too much staring at a screen.
I LOVE the idea of "Artists Dates" and I've slowly started to adopt that concept.
ReplyDeleteI gave up a lot of non-writing interests to be a better writer in the last nine years, but now I've brought some of those things back, and while I have to be careful not to avoid writing in general, I NEED those dates to yes discover new books and authors, but also things that may not directly influence my writing, but I NEED no less.
Despite the truth in what Harrison's saying, sometimes-
BURNOUT.
JUST.
HAPPENS.
No matter how disciplined a writer you are.
If you don't ever address your non-writing needs (which includes TAKING BREAKS and HAVING FUN!) you risk a breakdown. I speak from personal experience.
Today, in fact, I had to put a lot of my plans to celebrate "Children's Book Week 2014" on hold because I'd come emotionally and mentally unglued due to a personal matter, and Mother's Day yesterday while overall okay, is ALWAYS a hard day for me.
Chris, I know we don't always agree about many things regarding writing and publishing, but I always respect that you've worked hard to be where you are now, and still face the same frustrating things I and others in this community do.
I still don't have endless patience, but I have more than I did nine years ago.
Sometimes, that's all we can attain. It's still not enough for me. But more than I had a near decade ago.