Tuesday, March 26, 2013

The Writing Life: On Pushing Through

For those of you who have read my posts here or on my own blog, Caroline by line, you've probably noticed a certain theme -- I find writing hard. Sometimes I feel like a high diver who is afraid of heights. Don't get me wrong: I love what I do and am so fortunate to be an author (I mean, pinch me!). But almost daily there are challenges I face in this writing gig, and almost all of them come from within.

That's why I surround myself with things like this.
The lines about making good art are notes I took while listening to Neil Gaiman give the commencement address at The University of the Arts. 14 Ways to Make Mediocre Art comes from Emily Freeman at Chatting at the Sky (get your own cool copy here). The framed note I received in a packet of thank you letters after a school visit. "It's okay to be scared to write," it says. "I am too!"

To the right of my desk I've pinned this quote on the wall:
“Know that it is good to work. Work with love and think of liking it when you do it. It is easy and interesting. It is a privilege. There is nothing hard about it but your anxious vanity and fear of failure.
And when you work on your writing remember these things. Work with all your intellegence and love. Work freely and rollickingly as though talking to a friend who loves you. Mentally thumb your nose at the know-it-alls, jeerers, critics, doubters.”  -- IF YOU WANT TO WRITE, Barbara Ueland
Then there is this mini-poster I made, a response to all the thoughts rolling around in my head during my debut year. (Email me if you'd like your own copy!)
And other quotes I gather like sea shells, to pull out and examine when I need a boost:
"To make art is to sing with the human voice. To do this you must first learn that the only voice you need is the voice you already have. Art work is ordinary work, but it takes courage to embrace that work, and wisdom to mediate the interplay of art and fear." -- ART AND FEAR: OBSERVATIONS ON THE PERILS (AND REWARDS) OF ARTMAKING, by David Bayles and Ted Orland
"I am convinced that fear is at the root of most bad writing... . Good writing is often about letting go of fear and affectation. Affectation itself, beginning with the need to define some sorts of writing as 'good' and others sorts as 'bad,' is fearful behavior. Good writing is also about making good choices when it comes to picking the tools [words] you plan to work with." -- ON WRITING, Stephen King 
"Be an unstoppable force. Write with an imaginary machete strapped to your thigh. This is not wishy-washy, polite, drinking-tea-with-your-pinkie-sticking-out stuff. It’s who you want to be, your most powerful self. Write your books. Finish them, then make them better. Find the way. No one will make this dream come true for you but you." -- Laini Taylor
"Being an artist means: not numbering and counting, but ripening like a tree, which doesn't force its sap, and stands confidently in the storms of spring, not afraid that afterward summer may not come. It does come. But it comes only to those who are patient, who are there as if eternity lay before them, so unconcernedly silent and vast. I learn it every day of my life, learn it with pain I am grateful for: patience is everything." -- LETTERS TO A YOUNG POET, Rainer Maria Rilke 
How do you encourage yourself when writing is hard?

12 comments:

  1. Great quotes, Caroline. I find writing hard too, and sometimes get discouraged when I hear another writer talk about writing thousands of words a day.

    When I need to encourage myself, it's mostly convincinng myself to simplify, like just trying to get a picture in my head and then describe it, or imagine myself telling the story out loud. I know if I can just get some words down, revision can make them work; it's getting them down in the first place.

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    1. Yes! There's a satisfaction of getting the work done, even if it's not a lot.

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  2. These are wonderful quotes. I especially like that last one by Rilke! I have so many inspirational quotes and sayings around my writing spaces. Whenever I look up from my notebook or computer, they're there to keep me encouraged and motivated.

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    1. It's it gorgeous? Especially the part about standing confidently in the storms of spring. I need that.

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  3. Great post, Caroline! Lately so many things have been getting in the way of making time to write. It can be so hard.

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    1. It's very easy for other things to get in the way, isn't it?

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  4. My favorite writing quote is from Jack London. "You can't wait for inspiration. You have to go after it with a club."

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    1. Ha. A little less subtle than Picasso's "Inspiration exists, but it has to find you working."

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  5. I hate quotes, so I never turn to others' words for inspiration. In fact, my closing quote for my work email is literally: "You are not a puppet, so the quotes of others should never be the strings that dictate your actions. Cut loose and be moved by your own words."
    - Mike Winchell

    What I do to push through is turn to my own words--something I've written, something thoroughly polished, and something I consider good--and I read it to remind myself that I am not wasting my time writing. It builds the confidence I need.

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    1. Different strokes, yes?

      Just last week, I found something I'd written when first drafting May B. in 2007. I was feeling my way through the idea of writing in verse -- something I truly knew nothing about. Re-reading it encouraged me now, as I'm about to start research on something new. It showed me again I don't have to have it all figured out. Pretty liberating.

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  6. Good to know I'm not the only one with an inspiration board in front of me when I write, Caroline. When I was querying, I used to post pictures of all the agents who had my full or partial--superstitious I know, but it seemed to work.

    I love the idea of writing "rollickingly." Definitely putting that one on the inspiration board!

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Thanks for adding to the mayhem!